Cocoon After Dark
There’s a certain kind of story we only tell in the dark.
The kind that lingers. The kind we’ve carried in silence. The kind that needs soft lighting, no interruptions, and someone who won’t flinch.
Welcome to Cocoon After Dark—I’mQuincy Tessaverne, and this is a space for truth-telling that’s tender, textured, and unapologetically queer.
Each week, we sit with voices—mostly Black, brown, LGBTQ+—who’ve lived through things that don’t always fit into polite conversation.
We talk identity, pleasure, boundaries, grief, reinvention, and the moments that changed everything.
This isn’t small talk. It’s soul talk.
So take what you need. Leave what you don’t. And listen with your whole body.
Episodes
27 episodes
Not a Man. Not a Woman. Beyond the Binary with Joy Matthews
In this episode of 'Cocoon,' we sit down with Joy Matthews, a black queer health educator and volunteer coordinator at Together for Mental Wellbeing in the UK. Joy shares their journey of navigating complex relationships with their family, over...
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1:00:56
Against the Current: Keala Kennelly's Championing of Diversity in Surfing
In this compelling podcast episode, the host, recording from a cabana in Hawaii, dives into an intimate conversation with Keala Kenley, a trailblazing surfer who defied stereotypes and broke barriers in the world of professional surfing. Keala ...
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Season 1
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1:09:49
Fun, Fierce, and Fearless: Eboné Bell Gets Real!!
Join us for a profound conversation with Eboné Bell, a pioneering voice in representing queer women and non-binary individuals. From founding Tag Magazine to breaking stereotypes in leadership, Eboné shares her journey of creating spaces of inc...
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57:58
Season One: Damn That Was A Good Season
In this heartfelt episode, Quincy, the host, reflects on the incredible journey of season one, sharing lessons learned about recording, editing, and deep, meaningful conversations. Expressing deep gratitude to listeners for their support and en...
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6:39
Pleasure is a Language: Listening to Your Body with Whitni Miller of BDE Moves
In this enriching episode, we dive deep with Whitni Miller from BDE Moves, exploring the intricate realms of desire, intimacy, and queerness. Whitni empowers women, queer folks, and anyone feeling out of sync to reclaim their erotic voice with ...
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1:18:01
From Dryness to Delight: Transforming Vaginal Health with Hormones with Kate Wells
Hot, Sassy, and Science-Backed: Unleashing Midlife Power with Kate WellsIn this fiery episode of 'Cocoon After Dark,' host Quincy gets candid with Kate Wells, hormone expert and co-founder of the audacious brand Parlor Games. ...
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1:02:33
Wild and Free: Kayla Nielsen’s Spirited Voyage through Love and Healing
In this episode, we sit down with Kayla Nielsen, a world-renowned yoga teacher, podcaster, and survivor of domestic violence. Kayla shares her powerful story of reclaiming her body and life as she navigates through trauma, love, and heal...
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54:52
From Queer Queries to Golden Retriever Revelations with Michelle Flamer-Powell
Join us on this episode of 'Cocoon After Dark' as we dive into the multifaceted life of Michelle Flamer-Powell. Michelle shares her journey through queer motherhood, corporate leadership, and spirituality while adding her unique humor and vulne...
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1:05:51
OutVoteHQ: Empowering LGBTQIA+ Youth Towards Civic Engagement with Ranen Maio and Isaac James
Out Vote: Empowering LGBTQIA+ Youth Towards Civic Engagement🌈 From a simple selfie to sparking a movement—join Isaac & Ranen of Out Vote HQ as they revolutionize civic engagement! 🔥In this episode, the host interviews Isaac Ja...
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When Love Hurts the Little Ones: the Cost of Dating When You Have kids
In this emotional episode of Cocoon After Dark, host Quincy discusses the deep and often hidden impacts of dating the wrong people when you have children. She shares personal stories of her two past relationships with unhealed individuals and h...
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20:14
Conscious Connections in Queer Dating with Elise Braunschweiger
In this episode of Cocoon After Dark, the host is joined by Elise Braunschweiger, founder of Queer Conscious Connections, a matchmaking and coaching service for the LGBTQ community. They discuss the challenges of dating beyond heteronormative s...
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1:04:50
The Many Layers of Misty Marie: From Extensions to Entrepreneurial Wisdom
🌈 Discover a new level of beauty empowerment with Misty Marie! Dive into her expert insights on Great Lengths extensions, her non-gender conforming identity, and the spicy details of her latest venture, 'No Tulips.' Catch it all on Cocoon After...
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53:19
"Unf@&kable With" Series Episode 2/5:Minority Stress and Queer Youth Resilience Episode 2/5
🌈 Episode 2 of our "UnF@&kable With" series is here! 🎙️ Dive into the stories of resilience and strength among queer youth, as we explore minority stress and how one affirming person can make all the difference. Listen now and be inspired!&...
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11:23
Where Healing Meets Humanity with Justin Ayars
Former trial lawyer turned visionary founder Justin Ayars, JD is reimagining what healthcare can feel like through EqualityMD--a digital ecosystem rooted in trust, inclusion, and belonging. In this episode, we explore what happens when healing ...
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59:15
The Grit of Global Streets - Skating, Sponsorships & Showing Up Fierce
We meet Jade Azevedo tonight- skater, dreamer, mosh pit lover. They have just enough punk to flip the script. They once broke their back in the mosh pit at a Bikini Kill concert. Loves their mom's cooking, and yes, they did get into a huge braw...
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53:12
Part 1-"Unfuckable With": Queer Resilience Manifesto
💎 Unfuckable with.Not louder. Not harder. Not untouchable.It’s the moment you refuse to hand your peace over to someone else’s chaos.It’s resilience with a queer heartbeat — the softness that survives, the wholeness that do...
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11:37
The Mess That Made Me: Nikki LaCroce on Trauma, Truth, and Transformation
What happens when your life shatters in one breath—when betrayal, addiction, and loss collide? Nikki LaCroce calls 2021 her "personal armageddon", and in this episode, she opens up about leaving a decade-long abusive relationship, losing her mo...
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1:00:58
The Woman Grief Made: When a College Visit Changed Everything
In this episode of the Living Out Loud Podcast, Quincy Tessaverne shares her powerful story, The Woman Grief Made: The Day a College Tour Went Very Badly. With raw honesty, she opens up about losing her son, Josh, and how grief has forev...
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55:06
BONUS EPISODE: 3 Men, A lady and a little baby: Make-up artist's Caroline Ashton and Darais
We're Just Besties...Making a Baby (no Really)What happens when your gay best friend is your soulmate, your straight best friend is your baby mama, and both of you have significant others? Apparently...you make a whole damn family.
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1:11:27
Pillow Prince Unplugged: Pegging, Power, and Performance
From the flashing lights of Making the Band to the intimate corners of reinvention, Pillow Prince (Jared Garner) has lived many lives: go-go dancer, reality TV star, queer artist, and now the voice behind the new album Slept On.<...
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1:05:23
Bonus EPISODE: Beauty Standards
In this 20-minute episode, I delve into beauty standards through the lens of a Gen X Lesbian. From growing up without much SPF and getting my face fried to the point of blistering to navigating age in midlife. It's about turning back the clock,...
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19:19
Gay GoGo Dancer + Mortgage Advisor + Costumes and Production
Wesley Grey Hartmann lives at the intersection of intellect, embodiment, and unapologetic authenticity. By day, he is a trusted mortgage advisor and math geek helping people secure their futures with clarity and confidence. By night, he is a go...
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53:47
BONUS: Gen X Lesbian Menopause: The real talk with Quincy and all the sweat you can handle
Menopause isn't just an ending, it's a turning of the page. In this solo episode, I share and perhaps overshare the humor and heartache of being a Gen X lesbian moving through hot flashes, raising a teen, and still daring to find love. These ar...
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17:45
Solo Episode #1...Jealousy has haunted my friendships, my family, and my lovers. Let's talk about it?
Hey, it's Quincy- Welcome to Cocoon After Dark. Tonight it's just you and me in a solo episode where I'm getting raw about jealousy.From friendship to lovers- jealousy has haunted so many corners of my life. Sometimes it was my own, some...
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18:55
Quincy's Unseen Skin - A Look Behind Her Aura
Beneath the shimmer of indigo, past the polite masks and surface sparkle, lives Quincy's unseen skin-the layer you can't touch but can't ignore. This podcast isn't about small talk; it's about slipping into the raw frequencies where perception,...
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