Cocoon After Dark
There’s a certain kind of story we only tell in the dark.
The kind that lingers. The kind we’ve carried in silence. The kind that needs soft lighting, no interruptions, and someone who won’t flinch.
Welcome to Cocoon After Dark—I’mQuincy Tessaverne, and this is a space for truth-telling that’s tender, textured, and unapologetically queer.
Each week, we sit with voices—mostly Black, brown, LGBTQ+—who’ve lived through things that don’t always fit into polite conversation.
We talk identity, pleasure, boundaries, grief, reinvention, and the moments that changed everything.
This isn’t small talk. It’s soul talk.
So take what you need. Leave what you don’t. And listen with your whole body.
Episodes
18 episodes
When Love Hurts the Little Ones: the Cost of Dating When You Have kids
In this emotional episode of Cocoon After Dark, host Quincy discusses the deep and often hidden impacts of dating the wrong people when you have children. She shares personal stories of her two past relationships with unhealed individuals and h...
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20:14
Conscious Connections in Queer Dating with Elise Braunschweiger
In this episode of Cocoon After Dark, the host is joined by Elisa Braunschweiger, founder of Queer Conscious Connections, a matchmaking and coaching service for the LGBTQ community. They discuss the challenges of dating beyond heteronormative s...
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1:04:50
The Many Layers of Misty Marie: From Extensions to Entrepreneurial Wisdom
🌈 Discover a new level of beauty empowerment with Misty Marie! Dive into her expert insights on Great Lengths extensions, her non-gender conforming identity, and the spicy details of her latest venture, 'No Tulips.' Catch it all on Cocoon After...
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53:19
"Unf@&kable With" Series Episode 2/5:Minority Stress and Queer Youth Resilience Episode 2/5
🌈 Episode 2 of our "UnF@&kable With" series is here! 🎙️ Dive into the stories of resilience and strength among queer youth, as we explore minority stress and how one affirming person can make all the difference. Listen now and be inspired!&...
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11:23
Where Healing Meets Humanity with Justin Ayars
Former trial lawyer turned visionary founder Justin Ayars, JD is reimagining what healthcare can feel like through EqualityMD--a digital ecosystem rooted in trust, inclusion, and belonging. In this episode, we explore what happens when healing ...
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59:15
The Grit of Global Streets - Skating, Sponsorships & Showing Up Fierce
We meet Jade Azevedo tonight- skater, dreamer, mosh pit lover. They have just enough punk to flip the script. They once broke their back in the mosh pit at a Bikini Kill concert. Loves their mom's cooking, and yes, they did get into a huge braw...
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53:12
Part 1-"Unfuckable With": Queer Resilience Manifesto
💎 Unfuckable with.Not louder. Not harder. Not untouchable.It’s the moment you refuse to hand your peace over to someone else’s chaos.It’s resilience with a queer heartbeat — the softness that survives, the wholeness that do...
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11:37
The Mess That Made Me: Nikki LaCroce on Trauma, Truth, and Transformation
What happens when your life shatters in one breath—when betrayal, addiction, and loss collide? Nikki LaCroce calls 2021 her "personal armageddon", and in this episode, she opens up about leaving a decade-long abusive relationship, losing her mo...
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1:00:58
The Woman Grief Made: When a College Visit Changed Everything
In this episode of the Living Out Loud Podcast, Quincy Tessaverne shares her powerful story, The Woman Grief Made: The Day a College Tour Went Very Badly. With raw honesty, she opens up about losing her son, Josh, and how grief has forev...
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55:06
BONUS EPISODE: 3 Men, A lady and a little baby: Make-up artist's Caroline Ashton and Darais
We're Just Besties...Making a Baby (no Really)What happens when your gay best friend is your soulmate, your straight best friend is your baby mama, and both of you have significant others? Apparently...you make a whole damn family.
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1:11:27
Pillow Prince Unplugged: Pegging, Power, and Performance
From the flashing lights of Making the Band to the intimate corners of reinvention, Pillow Prince (Jared Garner) has lived many lives: go-go dancer, reality TV star, queer artist, and now the voice behind the new album Slept On.<...
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1:05:23
Bonus EPISODE: Beauty Standards
In this 20-minute episode, I delve into beauty standards through the lens of a Gen X Lesbian. From growing up without much SPF and getting my face fried to the point of blistering to navigating age in midlife. It's about turning back the clock,...
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19:19
Gay GoGo Dancer + Mortgage Advisor + Costumes and Production
Wesley Grey Hartmann lives at the intersection of intellect, embodiment, and unapologetic authenticity. By day, he is a trusted mortgage advisor and math geek helping people secure their futures with clarity and confidence. By night, he is a go...
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53:47
BONUS: Gen X Lesbian Menopause: The real talk with Quincy and all the sweat you can handle
Menopause isn't just an ending, it's a turning of the page. In this solo episode, I share and perhaps overshare the humor and heartache of being a Gen X lesbian moving through hot flashes, raising a teen, and still daring to find love. These ar...
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17:45
Solo Episode #1...Jealousy has haunted my friendships, my family, and my lovers. Let's talk about it?
Hey, it's Quincy- Welcome to Cocoon After Dark. Tonight it's just you and me in a solo episode where I'm getting raw about jealousy.From friendship to lovers- jealousy has haunted so many corners of my life. Sometimes it was my own, some...
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18:55
Quincy's Unseen Skin - A Look Behind Her Aura
Beneath the shimmer of indigo, past the polite masks and surface sparkle, lives Quincy's unseen skin-the layer you can't touch but can't ignore. This podcast isn't about small talk; it's about slipping into the raw frequencies where perception,...
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14:17
Love at First Swipe: Olivia and Kelly Unfiltered
What happens when a single swipe rewrites your entire future? Olivia and Kelly didn't just fall in love-they leapt headfirst, marrying only months after meeting online and choosing to share their story with the world.In this conversation...
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1:01:55
Trailer - Cocoon After Dark Season 1
This is Season 1 of Cocoon After Dark- where we get real, deep, and sexy about the LGBTQ voices you want to hear. We talk about body image, sex positivity, age gap relationships, queer identity, sperm donation, money, jealousy, and more. Come j...
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